Relationship advice for women: The following are 17 tips to make your relationship work better.
Relationship advice for women:Take Care of Yourself both Physically & Mentally
Try to take complete care of yourself. It means that you pay some attention to your physical appearance, get proper sleep and keep your mind active. You need to refresh your soul if you want to enjoy your relationship.
With good physical health and mind, you can fight with many big problems quite easily. Take a healthy diet and never forget to do some good exercises to maintain yourself. Give some special attention to your face and body. For many of the men, it’s the most attracting factor that can keep your relationship active.
Don’t chase Men
Chasing your man/spouse is the biggest problem for most of the women. It is not possible to make a man/ spouse love you forcefully. Chasing someone, emotional blackmailing is some weird mistakes that are done by even some intelligent ladies.
Rather, let him chase you to have some spark in your bonding. Chasing here could include calling him again and again while he is not that much interested.
Get Physical, Emotional and Mental Attention from him
Obviously, everyone likes the attraction. So, l get a good attention towards your physical looks. Moreover, getting mental and mental attention from him is also of equal importance as well.
Physical, mental and emotional attention is mandatory for a successful and long-term relationship.
Never Ignore the Problems
Every couple has to face some problems in a relationship as no one is perfect. The problem is initiated when you start ignoring the problems or if you are non-serious towards him.
Identify your major and minor problems. In the case of married couples, identify the differences between severe and common marriage problems. Then just sit and talk about them.
Have some time for your partner
There are so many women out there that have destroyed their relationships as they don’t have the time for their spouses. Most of those cases were with the working ladies.
There is no harm even if you are not a housewife and are a working lady. But the key is to maintain the work-life balance.
For many of people, the problem of work-life balance is a minor issue. But believe me that these issues are very dangerous in the long run.
Before sleeping just sit and discuss the important things about the current day at least for 15 minutes.
Listen to understand the issues and discussions
In the case of many marriages, the problems become worst and this reason is that the couples are not ready to understand. They just listen to defend themselves instead of thinking about a problem. This defensive approach is always destructive in relationships.
Listen to a problem carefully. After analyzing all facts and figure give your reaction. Listen to understand instead of being defensive.
Put equal and even more effort for your relationship
When you are in a relationship, not only he is responsible for everything. While most of the woman think that both are 50,50 responsible for everything. For me, this thinking is also wrong. As both of you have to put 100% effort. Relationships become weak when you start running away from your problems and put all the blames on your partner. The game is blame is not acceptable for you.
Never try to change your man
Many women are accused of changing their men according to circumstances. But in the most, this doesn’t work and the problems become worst. All the people are born with different natures.
We recommend you don’t force your spouse towards the changes. You can just share your thoughts. Maybe he would be able to adapt himself or maybe not.
Don’t bear any abuse
If you in love with your spouse it doesn’t mean that you have to bear any kind of abuse. By abuse, I don’t only mean physical abuse. There are many other factors including sexual abuse, gaslight and much more.
Even the mental torture is also a type of abuse.
Mental and emotional wounds are most dangerous than physical ones
Always speak the truth
Relationships based on truth are always durable and long-lasting. It doesn’t matter whatever the situation is just speak the truth always.
Telling a lie may solve your problems temporarily but in the long run, it would be destructive for sure.
Don’t Be Possessive
No is willing to share their spouse with someone else and that is totally fine. There is nothing wrong with it. But, don’t have a possessive attitude as many men dislike it.
Don’t beg for attention and time
There is no space for begging in a relationship. Your spouse should know how to manage the time or maintain his work-life balance.
Begging and forceful attention-seeking can lower your value inform of him. So, never do this. If you are still doing that just immediately stop these kinds of things.
Accept the differences in thinking and opinions
Not even the five fingers in a hand are equal. Every person is created with a different mind that can have different thinking. It is necessary to accept the differences in opinion. Do not only accept but respect the other’s opinion as he might be right in that case.
Do the things that he likes about you
Always follow the things that your spouse likes about you. Let’s take an example that he likes the curls in your hair or he may like the long nails etc.
If you love your spouse just do the things that he adores about you as this is very important to keep a relationship active.
Appreciate the good things
Whether you are a man or woman, everyone likes appreciation and especially from your partner. So, always try to appreciate him for his good things and deeds. Just say him thank you in an expressive way for the good things.
Another good way is to give him a surprise gift or cooking of any special food for him.
Listen to his point of view
Many men accuse women of reacting very fast without knowing the actual problem. It might not be true in all the cases but in some cases its absolutely true. Before giving any reaction just listen to his point of view completely.
Aggression, lack of communication and frustration are catastrophic for any relationship.
Don’t be a drama queen
Many surveys have proved that men don’t like dramas. So, our last advice is that always avoid any kind of drama. Because they work in movies only. In real life, these dramas can great some serious problems between both of you. As a result, you can lose the trust of your partner that is considering as the end of any relationship.