These are four things that your partner should never ask you.
4 things that your partner should never ask you
Today we want to mention four things: whatever happens, your partner should never ask you and that you SHOULD NOT ACCEPT !.
1- That you change your appearance:
He met you like this, and he must love you as-it, you do not have to change the way you dress or look just because he does not like it. The only reason you do it is that you already stopped liking it, but the important thing is that you feel comfortable with your appearance and not the rest. If he suddenly asks you not to wear a mini skirt, change your hair color, or stop wearing a jumpsuit because it is unfeminine, you don’t have to like it!
Now when it comes to the physical, LESS. If he constantly asks you to lose weight and is humiliating for you, please don’t allow it. Another very different thing is that he take care of yourself and can suggest certain things, for example, that you do not eat fried foods in excess because it will harm your health, or that perhaps together they could put on an exercise plan for the summer, but he compelled, be repetitive and press you because to change, it is NOT normal.
2- That you do certain things in the intimacy that you do not like:
The sexual experience is a whole world for a couple, and although at the beginning there may be fantastic chemistry, sooner or later they will have to reinvent themselves sexually, try new things, innovate and above all HAVE A GOOD COMMUNICATION on this level. Both must know what the other likes and does not like and, in that sense, be very careful because it is one thing to venture to try and experience new sensations, and quite another is that he forces you to do things that you do not want. Do not accept it.
3- That you stay away from certain people that you love very much:
He is not your world, and you are not his, everyone’s world is made up of many more people, and it is so important to take care and cultivate those ties, that nobody can force you to do otherwise.
If he begins to forbid you to go out with your friends because they are “bad influence” if he asks you to stay away from your mother because he “gets too involved,” and so little by little, you notice how your life begins to be summarized in him. He is wrong. It is completely normal that you want to be with your friends, go on vacation together, and enjoy together with more people than him.
4- That you give up your privacy:
A relationship is based on trust, and allowing him to control you is NOT normal, and you should stop it now. He does not have to ask you for your social network passwords or check your phone, let alone know each step you take.