How to be Happy in Relationships: Surely it has ever happened to you that out of nowhere someone gets angry at you for something you do not know or understand, but the truth is that they were offended; On the other hand, surely it has also happened to you that you got mad at someone for something they said or did and what was going very well simply ended.
Either way, you end up feeling bad and even sad about not having many friends or experiencing some relationship failures that were important to you.
Human relationships are extremely complex and difficult to understand fully, but always possible to improve and preserve.
We get angry, we feel sad, and many times we have situations that we do not know how to face or solve and we end up screaming, fighting or escaping from everything around us, affecting others, and that was what you least wanted to do.
Has it happened to you? Sometimes you wanted to do something nice and nice for someone, and things turned out just the other way around; very frustrating right?
A professional coach of self-improvement shares some recommendations to improve our personal or family relationships and strengthen ties of friendship and affection with everyone around us, be they coworkers, the bus driver and anyone who cross your path.
All these recommendations can be made easily and will not take more than a minute because they are simple and it is only a matter of really wanting to improve your relationship with people, and so you can gradually increase your circle of friends, improve the quality of your relationships and of course, feel calm and happy.
How to be Happy in Relationships,First, the couple
It is so easy to keep our partner happy, although sometimes we do not believe it is possible and pride or selfishness blind us; and what could have been easy becomes complex, hard. The worst thing is that many good couples end up separated or living unhappy, hurting those they love most. So pay attention, and above all, put it into practice today!
Long and tight hugs
Many times we justify ourselves saying: ” I am not loving, that’s how I was raised, that’s the way I am and there’s no way I can change.” Those words do not build a relationship. We can all change and improve, and when we do, everything improves around us. Make an effort to be a little more loving and kind.
Loving messages reminding him why you love him
If physical contact is not your forte, perhaps you can start with small affectionate notes. Nowadays, social networks and various forms of instant communication help a lot.
Details, details. They are on our side. Send a heart, an image that expresses what is difficult for you. A kind word can change the hardest heart.
A flower, a candy, something that says to him: “I think of you”, “I remember you” or “you are important to me”.
Of course, it is very nice to receive a gift, but it will never replace the affection that our words and actions can show.
Do it also with your family and friends
Sometimes we distance ourselves from dear friends without realizing it, for all of them, and relatives too, you can do this:
Send a funny article a gif or a joke as a pretext and then invite him to eat
Smile, walk smiling, answer the phone and smile, the person on the other end of the line notices it, and that creates a warm and pleasant feeling to speak. Never underestimate the value of a smile. Whoever feels happy attracts happy people.
- Record a funny message, a song of youth and send it to your brother who is far away.
- Make a spontaneous video call to your parents.
- Send an old school photo to a group of alumni.
Write a short message joyful, effusive or full of love for someone special.
When we say that we don’t have time to see someone, write or call them, deep down, we simply don’t want to do it for some reason. When we love someone or someone we are interested in, we find the time to be present. Just think that if today you do not cultivate the friendship and affection in those around you, tomorrow you will be alone.